LIFE Conversations

I value intimacy. It is on the top of my list of core values. There is a saying…I don’t know who wrote it, but it fits me to a T.
“If some is good, and more is better, then too much is never enough.”

That is the excessive extremist me…regarding many things…but especially pertaining to intimacy. I can’t get enough of it. I thrive on deep intimate connections with those I love. My inner circle is small…for a number and variety of reasons. One…I like to invest heavily in those I love. I am all in and when I build with someone…I want to lay a firm foundation…something that lasts. A house that will withstand all the storms that come along. Much like the three little pigs’ story…I have chosen to build a brick home…. where all of that huffing and puffing won’t blow me down. Many have tried over the years and still I STAND.

For 30 years, my emotional and spiritual intimacy needs have been met through my relationship with Father…aka…God. This intimate relationship was birthed out of pain…great pain. Desperation and longing for a connection with a husband…that I was not allowed to have.